What if you have a scarcity mindset?
What does that mean? Basically if you are saying these types of things in your life, (I don’t have enough time, enough money, enough love, enough fun…..and it goes on and on), then you have a scarcity mindset.
Over the years I have witnessed countless numbers of people wanting me to help them with relationships and Love. And, most of the ones that end up not hiring me are because they say they can’t afford it.
That is a scarcity mindset that permeates all areas of their lives. If you think you can’t afford to invest in yourself to have a great Love relationship then that’s what’s keeping you stuck not having that relationship.
If you have scarcity in Love it will show up in money, time, freedom, etc., and vice versa.
So, then it should come as no surprise to you that these are all intimacy issues.
People that have a deep profound sense of self Love, self esteem, and genuine self confidence do not have scarcity mindsets and will do what it takes to have what they say they want in their lives even if they don’t know how.
I remember one of my mentors saying to me, “if you have money issues you will have sex and Love issues.” They go hand and hand with scarcity and lack.
It took me a long time to get this principle. Much longer than I want to admit!!!
There was a study done with people that were highly successful in all areas of their lives. They were asked to put a percentage, like 80/20 or 50/50, etc. on how much energy they put into the following two areas when it comes to their success. One is how to do it and the other is intent. The results were mind blowing! All of the successful people said its 100% intent and 0% how to do it!
In other words, they had no idea and did not care how it would happen. Their focus was on intent and action and they trusted that the people, circumstances, and resources would be attracted to them out of pure intent, action, and commitment. WOW!!!
Are you in scarcity and lack because you don’t know how you’re going to make something happen?
Are you scared to make a promise that you have no idea how to keep?
If so you are, then you are playing a very small game in life because intent and action come before the how in manifestation. Everything else is control and being comfortable in the familiar. And that will get you the same results that you say you don’t want (Insanity).
Hit reply and let me know how this email relates to you.
If you knew that intent and action were all it takes to have the sizzling Love life of your dreams and the how was going to show up later wouldn’t you do it?
Well that’s what successful people do……they trust themselves….and trust the process allowing the how to show up.
I’m so excited to hear from you!
Light & Love,