Hi Radiant Friend!
Are you being honest with yourself?
Yesterday I was really in a dark funk! Somebody I knew passed away 1 ½ years ago tragically and I didn’t even know about it. All I can say is that I started to cry and sob. This woman touched so many lives!
The rest of the day I was sad, paralyzed, and scared!
Why? Because I knew this person, danced with her, and felt like the reason I didn’t know was that I was disconnected from my community.
And, disconnection is selfish!
So I started to reflect last night and today if I was being honest with myself about my connection with others and how I show up.
Needless to say, yesterday was a very painful wake-up call! The day was an inventory of all the promises and commitments I had broken with myself. And, what level of game I’m willing to play the rest of my days in human form.
You see, when we are not keeping our word with ourselves our connection with others suffers. It’s almost like we feel so much shame, guilt, and fear that we hide and isolate. Which leads to loneliness as that insidious little voice in our heads gets louder and louder.
Honesty with ourselves leads to courage and calling ourselves out. Which then leads to connection, intimacy, and compassion with ourselves and others.
It’s called welcome to humanity and the perfection of imperfection!
Part of being human is restoring our integrity over and over and over again. But without restoring our integrity with ourselves we become numb to the wonderful human experience, the good, the bad, and the ugly!
To fully embrace life and relationships we must stay connected and in communication.
Truly, that is one of the keys to deep lasting Love and intimacy, “into-me-see.” When we allow people into our world, it makes it safe for them to welcome us into theirs.
Modeling is the quickest way to transform any relationship.
People crave to see, feel, and experience other people’s humanness regardless of what they might say.
Sharing is the surest way to release shame, fear, guilt, and loneliness!
Another lesson in why doing it by ourselves does not work!

If you are committed to:

Release shame, fear, guilt, and loneliness and/or

Increase confidence and self esteem and/or

Learn how to stay connected, and/or

Communicate authentically and successfully in any circumstance, and/or

Model integrity and honesty to attract the same,

Then BE on the teleseminar call promptly Monday September 14th at 8pm EDT!
You can also take immediate action and be proactive with yourself by scheduling a complimentary Relationship Strategy Call with me NOW!
Don’t you want to bring that special someone into your life that exhibits honesty, integrity, and communicates successfully with authenticity and humility (true self confidence!)?
Remember like attracts like!

Call in details:
Dial in number: 712-775-7031
Access code: 502450
Monday September 14th at 8pm EDT

Talk with you Monday or sooner!

Light, Love, & Gratitude,
Dr. Rusty
P.S. This is a crucial call to hear and ask questions! Hear a preview about my interview with Allana Pratt on her “Intimate Conversations LIVE” next Thursday September 17th at 7pm EDT, 4pmPDT! I will make an outrageous offer that you do not want to miss! As part of the interview I will be unveiling my “90 day LIVE Relationship Attraction Boot Camp” to be launched in October 2015! I promise you will be blown away by this exciting program! To learn more and receive a complimentary Relationship Strategy Call book a time with me HERE!

Hi Friends!

Really dude! Another summit… how many of these do you want me to watch and listen to?

I have a couple answers for this question?

1) Yes, this is the season for Love and sizzling sex and it seems more and more people are crying out for guidance on how to attract it, keep it, and flourish in their relationships;

and

2) I want you to listen to as many of these totally free summits as it takes to get you out of whatever pain and disappointment you may have about past or present relationships…

…and to experience Deep Lasting Love inspired by unconventional, authentic, fulfilling, trusting relationships with ravishing sex through unbridled self expression that brings more joy and passion into your life with all those you connect with than ever before.

This means when a chance to participate and tell you about an amazing group of authors, teachers, and inspirational transformation experts comes around—I am going to tell you…

…. and with the enthusiasm of somebody winning the lottery!

I want you to be excited and orgasmic too.

How could you not be excited, curious, and inspired by this extraordinary lineup of experts: Allana Pratt, Larry Michel, Carol Allen, Kimberly Seltzer, Eva Clay, Dana Garrison, Kathryn Alice, Mali Apple & Joe Dunn, Reid Mihalko & Monique Darling, Lawrence Lanoff, Laurie Handlers, Mia Saenz, Scott Catamas & Emily Orum, Shasta Townsend, Edie Weinstein, Asttarte Deva Shatki Bliss, Dr. Elsbeth Meuth & Freddy Zentar, Kinky Cassie Fuller, Mare Simone, and Julio Cortes!

How extraordinary would it be to attract and keep partner(s) and/or playmates with deep lasting Love and beyond imaginable ravishing sex?

MIND BLOWING, right?!

But instead of this spectacular loving experience, perhaps this is or has been you….

…or maybe this is someone you know and care about…

This person is lonely, depressed, cynical, disappointed, hurt, intimidated, desperate, apathetic, and resigned when it comes to attracting the partner(s) of their dreams.

Love and trust is lost with no light at the end of the tunnel.

We are screaming at the top of our lungs…. DO NOT SETTLE OR GIVE UP!!! You deserve to share yourself with someone exquisitely special!

There is a recipe for attracting fulfilling and trusting relationships into your life.

You can and will create deep lasting Love, joy, and acceptance with a breathtaking companion and/or playmates of your fantasies.

You can have heart connected, powerful, and scrumptious edgy spiritual sex with each other!

The amazing line-up in the Edgy Love Secrets Revealed Summit are sharing their Edgy Love Secrets to help people across the world bring true Love, sex, compatibility, and fulfillment into their lives.
————> Register now for Edgy Love Secrets Revealed Video Summit Live at www.edgylovesecretsrevealed.com

I will be interviewed along with 24 other experts on this upcoming video summit, Edgy Love Secrets Revealed: Discover How to Create Unconventional, Authentic, Fulfilling, Trusting Relationships with Ravishing Sex through Unbridled Self Expression!

I am blessed to be among many of the top experts on: attracting your dream partner(s), relationship communication, connected edgy sex, tantra, and alternative diverse relationships.

I am excited about this summit because it’s a very special line-up of experts that do not come together often.

This is ALSO NOT your typical Summit. The content is edgy. It will challenge how you to look at a number of things differently than you might do now. Some you will love. Some you might question. Some of the content might seriously push your boundaries.

You will absolutely hear and learn new things, and that is worth the price of admission—which is only your time and your willingness to learn and grow and discover ways to bring more joy and excitement into your life, and keep it there. The dollar cost is zero.

This invigorating, diverse and unique summit will give you the keys to take action and attract and keep the partner(s) of your dreams!

WOW, is that evocative or what?
————> Register now for Edgy Love Secrets Revealed Video Summit at www.edgylovesecretsrevealed.com

Many people have a story about why love and sex doesn’t work in their lives. The fabulous news is this summit is about being empowered to write your own love story with your ideal companion(s). All 25 speakers have been handpicked as the top experts by Dr. Rusty so that you can have the love(s) of your life!

Jump in NOW! There’s nothing to lose and everything to gain! You deserve the best!
————> Register now for Edgy Love Secrets Revealed Video Summit at www.edgtlovesecretsrevealed.com

I’m inviting you as my guest to experience this juicy summit for yourself and attract authentic Love and partnership.

Isn’t it time to wake up in the morning, glance over at the most amazing person you have ever experienced and gush with Love and appreciation….

…Only to discover in that same moment they are looking at you and feeling exactly the same way! BREATHE!

IT’S TOTALLY POSSIBLE!
Click here to register for www.edgylovesecretsrevealed.com and bid a final farewell to living without a special companion, best friend, and scorching lover(s)!

Gratitude, Love, and Light,

Dr. Rusty’s Love Shack

Rusty Stewart, Ph.D., ACHt.

We all have people in our lives with whom we share varying degrees of closeness, openness, and connection. Most of us have conversations with our friends, family, and colleagues that involve listening, supporting, and responding to a variety of topics or personal issues. It is through these meaningful encounters that we share our hopes, dreams, aspirations, and fears. We also tend to speak about what is and is not working in our lives. And, we respond in many different ways depending on who the person is and what we stand for. Some of us stand for agreement, some disagreement, others victimhood, some responsibility, many inauthenticity, and yet others mediocrity. This article is about the minority of people that stand for integrity and transformation in themselves and others.

So just what does it mean to stand for people authentically? It means getting out of our own way by trusting ourselves. This means not being concerned about what other people may think when you’re being honest with them in supporting their dreams, greatness, and everyday miracles. Being authentic means communicating the ways we’ve not been genuine and inviting people to share the ways they have been not been honest, which includes having withheld information. This also means cleaning up our relationships and unfinished business. This may mean pointing out potential sensitive blind spots to friends, colleagues or loved ones that are keeping them stuck in mediocrity. It may result in spending less time with people that choose to be victims of their stories and excuses.
Integrity is being true to yourself and your word. If you cannot be true to yourself, how are you ever going to be able to be true to another? Like attracts like. I love the poem “The Invitation” by Oriah Mountain Dreamer. Here’s a partial quote where she shares about authenticity, integrity, and possibility; “It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living, I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing. I want to know if you can be with joy mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human. It doesn’t interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself. If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. If you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.” Just like it does not serve me for someone to buy into my bullshit, I am not in integrity if I buy into another person’s disempowering story of circumstances, “can’ts”, and victimizations. I want the people who really care about me in my life to hold me accountable for everything I attract. This is true self-responsibility, true self-empowerment, and being in integrity!
When one stands for transformation one is standing for possibility (as the only option), unlimitedness, or to put it another way, living outside their comfort zone. Much of our programming from our past has taught us about what’s impossible, that we’re limited, and that we are to conform to society and only think in ways that support the status quo. This type of thinking is representative of living inside the box. Living outside the box is being open to our blind spots (what other people may know about us that we don’t know) and being curious about what “we don’t know that we don’t know.” New paradigms, or belief systems, are seeded within us and grow in the window of the unknown. This is also where greatness resides. As a coach, public speaker, and leader, I stand for the possibility of our greatness as human beings.
In order for transformation to occur individually and globally people must choose to take a stand for authenticity and completing unfinished business from our past. This means cleaning up any withholds we have with people. It comes down to owning our shit and being brutally honest while at the same time gentle with ourselves and others. When we truly take a stand for ourselves, nothing gets in the way of our purpose. All problems are looked at as opportunities. All failures are interpreted as stepping stones to success. There is no room for stories, excuses, or inauthentic ways of being. It is through our own transformation and courage that we model new and unlimited possibilities for others. We are not served by remaining mediocre, ignoring our blind spots, and keeping our heads in the sand of victimhood, limitedness, and status quo conformity. In order to be our greatness we need to surround ourselves with others who will hold us accountable, be assertively honest, and challenge us to live our word. In short, be in integrity with what we say with our words and actions.
Thus, authentically standing for people and their greatness requires us to take risks and be vulnerable in our sharing and feedback. This may piss some people off or put them on the defensive. The question I have is, do you really care about them? Do you want to support them being mediocre or being in their greatness? What serves their highest good, authenticity and integrity, or inauthenticity and consistently and perhaps unconsciously breaking their word? Who do you authentically stand for? What’s the risk of not authentically standing for people’s excellence? I dare say it may be your own lack integrity and inauthenticity and the ultimate betrayal of your own soul. Once our eyes are open to human beings’ unlimited possibility and greatness, the cat is out of the bag. Our eyes can truly never shut again. We know too much about what we don’t know that we don’t know. Transformation is permanent and empowering. Authentically standing for our and others greatness is the only viable option. Everything else is just a story of victimhood.